Mar 03 2011

Dating Tips That Are More Important Than “The Rules”

Category: Dating Tipsadmin @ 6:56 pm
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by roolrool

Remember “The Rules?”  That was supposed to be a book that explained to modern women how to land the man of their dreams and have the relationship they really want.  While some of that logic was understandable, the book overcomplicated some of the most basic lessons of courtship.  For my best dating tips, you only need one page worth of rules. 

First, always look your best.  This should go without saying in the looks department, but just as importantly, you want to converse in a friendly manner.  Be approachable, maintain eye contact, and show interest in what the man is saying.  Always smile.  In other words, do not act like a witch, thinking it’s going to draw men closer to you!

Next for my dating tips, I would suggest that you learn a man’s personal space and do your best never to intrude into his privacy.  Men want beauty and exciting conversation.  However, they want to progress in the relationship at their own pace.  When you invade the man’s space you come across as clingy or controlling—perhaps even psychotic, if you have an abundance of negative energy.  Whenever you hear the advice to “be cool” all that means is that you never invade personal space!

Second for dating tips, I say don’t be afraid to be kind and supportive.  I am not saying that you should act like a sycophant or wimp.  However, when you see that the man you like is obviously kind-hearted, or is doing something nice, reward him for his behavior.  Deep down, all men want to be loved and supported.  They feel they are natural born leaders, and so want a partner to support them through “thick and thin.” 

Third for dating tips, do not write the man off as unromantic just because you don’t see eye to eye right away.  Some men have to be trained in romance; that is, they have to be shown what you like and dislike.  Most men do have a romantic spirit, however.  This spirit may be shown in little things, but if you pay attention to what he does and says, you will see a romantic side.

Finally for my dating tips, I advise women to observe the object of their affection.  Learn what role you need to take on according to his mood.  For example, when he is feeling blue, are you supportive of him?  When he is up in the air, are you traveling with him?  If you are consistent, he will start to think of you as his soul mate—a woman who is always there, and knows just what to say to make him happy.

Anna Karimo is a dating guru providing you a helping hand in improving your dating skills and guiding you with her immense knowledge and experience in dating services.

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