May 18 2011

Internet Dating Some Mistakes To Avoid

Category: Dating Guidesadmin @ 11:44 pm
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by infomatique

Online Dating is definitely here to stay. There are thousands of people looking to meet that someone special, on thousands of different internet dating sites. In this modern computer age dating online is an accepted way of meeting someone.

There are some traps to avoid. It is always a good idea to become familiar with a number of different services, both free and paid, to get some idea of how they operate. I also recommend taking part in chat rooms to get a feel how this whole dating game is played.
There are plenty of places where you can find reviews of dating sites, try a Google search and find some that appeal to you.

Not all people are honest and the obvious thing is that online you can be whatever or whoever you like. People lie about their age, their status, post old photos to appear younger, or worse, post a photo that is not even them. So you have to be careful and use common sense. Have a few questions ready to ask your prospective date. Those who lie are going to be found out and left looking rather silly.

Forming a relationship with someone from another country is always risky. Depending on the country. There are sites that specialise in setting up meetings between different countries but not all are genuine. A good Idea is to find out if anyone from your area has used such a service and ask them what experiences they had.

You may be impressed with some exotic beauty from another country and after a month she is keen to visit you. Only one problem, she has no money can you send her some?
This should ring alarm bells. Especially if you offer her an air ticket instead. Just be wary when dealing with people from another country. While people do form relationships with others from different countries, it is not without risk. Having said that there are plenty of successful marriages between couples from different countries.

Your photo is attractive, your profile is interesting, and you get a few people who are interested. You can spend time chatting online, sending each other emails. The thing to keep in mind at this stage is why you are online in the first place. The aim is to get a date. The danger is you will develop a online friendship, but never get to go on an actual date.

Don’t send too much time chatting if you are really interested in the other person. The idea is to move things along. Give he or she your phone number or ask for their number. You will soon find out if the other person is serious or not. Ask for the date, don’t become their chat buddy.

The first date should be fairly low key. Think outside the square, be original, going to the movies on a first date is not a good idea. You need to go somewhere where you will both feel relaxed and where you can talk to each other and get to know each other better. If you are a woman make sure your first date is in a public place and tell someone where you are going and what time you will be home.

Not everyone will meet on the net of course. You might meet on the street, at the supermarket, the bus station or wherever. In this situation you can take your chances and try to set up a date straight away. Ask her (or he) if they have time for a coffee. Exchange
phone numbers, you might never get the opportunity again. If you do manage to get her phone number don’t wait too long to call her, she may think you’re not interested if you don’t ask her out.

There are so many aspects to dating and relationships. Use common sense and keep your goal in mind. Get the date and then you can let things develop from there, or not.

Julian Cowie is a freelance writer and internet marketer. His web site can be view at

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May 18 2011

How Do Websites Make Internet Dating Safe

Category: Dating Questionsadmin @ 6:59 am
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by Mr-Pan

What are the chances of my personal information getting into the wrong hands? Will my credit card information be stolen? How can I be sure the people who match up with me are actually who they say they are? These are just some of the internet dating questions that are asked.

Internet security

The best internet dating sites are the ones that clearly serve and protect you. First of all, despite your contention that a free service will provide you with more opportunities, this is the wrong attitude to take. A free website is accessible by anyone, anywhere! A website that requires a small fee for membership will generally attract users who truly are looking for love, without ulterior motivates. Try and find a website that screens incoming applications before approving them. This is ensure sure they are valid and belong to a real person.

Getting personal

Once you’ve met some prospective matches you think have the characteristics you’re looking for, don’t dive ahead too quickly. You want to make sure you still are in charge of who has access to your personal information. Only give this out to members you genuinely trust and feel comfortable meeting or speaking with. Internet dating is a great way to meet new people, and one of its best features is that you can get to know someone online in order to determine whether meeting them would be a viable next step. Keep your address, last name and phone number to yourself until you’re sure you’ve found someone trustworthy.

Credit cards

A lot of individuals still feel very skittish putting their credit card information on a website potentially accessible to hackers and others. Make sure the internet site you’re using is security enabled and encrypted to guard against any potential theft of your information. It’s a simple precaution to take but one everyone should not skip. Internet dating is lots of fun, but not if your information is stolen! Check with the website’s policies and see what security measures are offered. It’s always better to check in advance so you’re not sorry later.

Tying it all together

Following these simple precautions will ensure you have a great internet dating experience. If there are other measures you feel would protect you, feel free to make use of them. No one should ever feel vulnerable via the internet, but finding a safe online dating service doesn’t have to be hard and should never be stressful. Just remember to be very leery of sites that have no qualifications when selecting members. A small monthly fee will give you a lot of peace of mind when it comes to your security. You’ll be more inclined to think, and you’ll be correct in this assumption, that other members have thought through these same thoughts.

Every one of those other members made sure to check the site for credit card policies, to harness their personal information and to pay a monthly fee in order to be fully protected. Don’t try and get around these tips by trying an “easier” or cheaper way; it’ll only lead to more headache and hardship later on, and you’ll likely still be without a date!

It’s always best to be safe rather than sorry. Be caution while joining any dating site. This site at Online Dating or Internet Dating can offer more valuable information on this topic.

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May 07 2011

Four Internet Dating Tips for Women

Category: Dating Tipsadmin @ 3:48 am
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You can find the man of your dreams with internet dating as long as you are not overly selective. In this article we will give you several internet dating tips for women that will help be safe doing and get a date using and internet dating site.

1. It all starts with your profile. Men are looking for someone that is interesting to them. You want to present yourself in the best way as possible. This must include being honest about yourself and true to your values.

2. Either buy or borrow a good quality digital camera if you do not have one. The success of your profile is increased by your online photo. You want a picture that shows you with a smile that says you are a happy person and fun to be around.

One important point on your picture is to not use one that is sexual in nature. You can, and should look sexy, but you can do that by just presenting yourself in the best possible light.

3. You are going to get replies and you should be screen those and look for someone that appeals to you. Do not necessarily be to selective, but also do not lower your standards either.

4. In this article we can not stress safety to much. Hopefully you are blessed with common sense because you will need it.

If you are not careful you can get caught up in the excitement of internet dating and make some bad choices.

A few basic things not do do would include do not give out your address or home phone number.

Meet in a public place and be sure several people know where you re going. If it makes you feel more secure you may even want to have someone accompany you and hang out in the shadows.

If for any reason you are are not comfortable during your date get up and leave. The same thing goes for a second date. Do not feel pressured to go on if you do not want to.

There are so many men available in this world that you will be able to find someone you enjoy dating. These internet dating tips for women should help give you confidence and get you ready for your date.

Now the next rest is up to you. Enjoy the process and have fun because internet dating is a lot of fun when you do it right.

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Apr 16 2011

Internet Dating is Here to Stay – Keep Your Husbands Close and Your Computers and Passwords Closer

Category: Dating Questionsadmin @ 6:43 am
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by adria.richards

Yesterday while driving to the local park to take my morning run, I was listening to one of our very popular radio stations here in our delightful city and during the news break for the station, I heard this story “woman who suspected her husband of cheating, found out that not only was he cheating, but he had gotten married at Disney world (no less) and posted his new pictures of his lovely bride on his Facebook page for all too see”, the reporter goes on to say ” the lovely new couple shared their wedding photos like any of us would for friends and family who couldn’t attend the ceremony, to allow them to share in their most special day”. WTF! Ahhhh…romance and wedded bliss. A dream wedding in fairytale heaven, who could ask for anything more? I’m getting teary eyed just thinking about it. If only the other wife could have been invited.

A few months ago, I was in the beauty salon getting my gray colored out (again), and chatting with the ladies in the nearby styling chairs and we were all listening to a middle aged woman who was telling us that she had recently married for the first time. A sweet story of dating, love and romance. She said she dated her military beau for quite some time before they tied the knot. She started off sounding like the honeymoon phase was still in full effect. Within 20 minutes and after some probing questions from yours truly, she shared that she felt “something wasn’t quite right” in her marriage and began to act on her woman’s intuition. She started with the computers in her home. One day, while doing her “due diligence” she searched through the history of recent sites and found Facebook and another dating site, neither of which, she was a member of nor had she searched for them. They had no children so she felt this was “odd”. Continuing on, she logged onto Facebook and being the true wife that she is, she tried several codes and finally found the one that would open his account. Much to her surprise, she confirmed that her husband was on that site and had several female friends on his page. Not really a big deal but then she noticed that his profile said “single” and seeking “women and friends”. Without much delay, she continued her hunt for information, on to the dating site and again cracked the code for the password and learned that her Country serving, fatigue wearing, good husband was fully engaged in something that had nothing to do with searching for WMD’s! He had another life of dating and soliciting women while at work and at home in her absence. I won’t go into detail here about what she said happened but suffice to say, it wasn’t pretty.

I have my own personal details of internet dating that I have reserved for our upcoming book in humorous, sad and cynical detail. The trials and tribulations of trying to find love in cyberspace is an exercise in character building to put it mildly. Still, I want to share a few pros and cons: The “pros” of internet dating are that it provides an easy relaxed way of meeting people, you can control how much they invade your life, you can ask lots of questions, create and imaginary you and make yourself seem pretty incredible. Its cheap, so some men have said “its a way to get to know someone without always having to pay for dinner and drinks, plus you get to check out many ladies at once”. And ladies, the same applies to you! Also, you can post pictures of yourself that may or may not look like you today or even look like you ten years ago and that person who is starting to adore you will never be the wiser. That is unless and until the big “can I take you on a date?” question is finally posed, then you have to start going to the gym to work off that belly, start popping those diet pills, picking up the Just for Men or Clairol coloring kits, or buying up the face creams to get rid of those lines and dark spots that don’t show in your picture. It is at this point where you may have to disclose to your potential date that you don’t look “exactly like your picture” or “you’ve gained a few pounds over the last few months”. Or what will happen is when you finally see them at the cafe or coffee shop, you find yourself stunned, feeling “bamboozled and led astray” and searching for words that will help you escape, like “I just got a call my uncle is in the hospital dying of cancer and I have to head to the airport right now!”. This is only part of the “cons”.

Men and women I have spoken to, have much to say about their own nightmares and surprises about internet and social network dating and they don’t sound nothing like the “blissful” married stories on that other dating site (eHarmony). We divulge more “cons” and stories in “Why Do I Have to Think Like a Man?”, but in the interim, ladies and gentlemen, keep your partners close and those computers and passwords closer!

Not to be misled, I am certain there were other sides to both of the above stories, however this version is what was shared with me. This is the only version I can attest to first hand. Don’t shoot the messenger! I also am fully aware that cheating whether on cyberspace or at the office, occurs with men and women. I am equally sure that one can find love on the internet. I will write about those people just as soon as I meet them. I just want to do my good deed for this


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