May 17 2011

Things That One Should Know About Online Dating

Category: Online Dating Adviceadmin @ 5:54 am
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by whatsthatpicture

What a strange title for an article, I write online dating advice so why would I encourage people not to read it?

Clearly I believe there is some good dating advice on the internet or I wouldn’t waste my time writing dating advice and tips but I want people to think about what they are reading and who the author is before they take anything they read as gospel.

Here are 5 things to carefully consider before you take the advice of dating “experts”.

1. Everything written is an opinion from someone with a given history. Just google “article writing+fee” and see how many people in countries like India offer to write articles for website owners for a fee. India is simply one example but life there is somewhat different on the dating scene and their knowledge may well come from watching re-runs of Baywatch and Dallas. Check who is writing the website content, do their articles all sound as though they are written by the same person, are they writing from a personal perspective and if so what is their dating history?

2. The words “expert” and “guru” are over-used and I rarely read advice from anyone calling themselves either. What qualifies someone as an expert at dating? If they have been constantly dating for 30 years then they either have commitment issues or are very bad at dating. Just take Dr Phil, would I read his advice on how to have a long and happy marriage? Absolutely but would I read his advice on dating in your 40′s in 2008? What does he really know about the current dating scene, he isn’t dating.

3. Dating advice that includes comments like “I can make you attractive to men/women even if you are fat and ugly”. Would you go into a clothes shop and accept advice from a shop assistant that called you fat and ugly? I doubt it, so why would you accept being insulted simply because it’s online. False promises of making you attractive to the opposite sex rely on your lack of confidence in order to get you to buy their book or video or whatever they are selling. Take advice from people that respect who you are and aren’t desperately trying to sell you something.

4. Beware of the bitter and twisted. Blogging is a platform for many types of people but that includes those that simply want to rant about their bad experiences. There are many dating blogs that simply catalogue a serious of disastrous dates, call men names and generalise about the opposite sex, particularly written by women in their 40′s but I have yet to read one that stops and asks herself if perhaps she is the problem. Avoid these blogs, they usually have no real constructive advice to offer.

5. The ones that state “I am the same as you so my advice is best for you”. Don’t just read advice from people of the same age, gender and situation, much can be learned from reading the thoughts of the opposite sex and older people that have been there, done that and bought the t-shirt. If you are recently divorced then don’t read advice by someone who is also recently divorced and trying to date again, find a writer that has been divorced, began dating again and is now in a long term relationship they have the experience you want to hear about.

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May 13 2011

Online dating sites – What you need to know!

Category: Online Datingadmin @ 10:06 am
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by Learning Futures Festival 2010

People often assume that meeting singles online and forming relationships this way will see these romances end more quickly than those singles who meet by conventional methods. It is widely and also incorrectly assumed that singles who meet this way are usually of inferior looks and lack social interaction skills. However studies have in fact proven that this theory is the reverse with regards to dating sites.

What this research has shown is that when online singles have advanced to the stage of meeting and understanding someone else they have met on a dating site they are not entirely blinded by an initial attraction and therefore are found to have a more likely chance of having things in common as a result of building a relationship through chat rooms and emails prior to meeting in person.

Online dating services allow their members to distinguish compatible matches from incompatible matches there for improving the chances of forming a successful relationship. Various dating sites allow singles to meet people any time of the day or night making this matchmaking tool a very convenient social outlet allowing busy singles to cruise the chat rooms any time they please and are not restricted to bar or club trading hours. For the same cost as one cover charge at your local club, a dating site will give you 1 months full access where you will be able to chat privately with other singles, join in on a group chat , or simply email those whose profiles are appealing and you would like to get to know.

Numerous variables regulate how successful a relationship can be regardless of whether you meet online or offline.Online dating simply gives you a head start with better odds compared to when you meet someone at a bar where the atmosphere is sometimes loud, is often set in a dark environment and where alcohol can cloud your judgement. Lets say you ask someone you met at a bar for their phone number, meeting someone this way will make your first date feel like you are dating a total stranger when you meet up again in a different environment.

Couples who gain skills in dealing well with communicating have a much better chance of going the distance. Online dating gives you the chance to be well informed before agreeing to go out with someone. Whats more, as we are not usually sitting at our computer downing Vodka Redbulls, its a damn sight cheaper too.

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May 11 2011

Online dating and chat security – do you know who you’re talking to?

Category: Online Datingadmin @ 7:57 am
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by farukahmet

If you’re single or have children and use the internet as a social tool, you need to know the potential dangers of socializing online.

Vulnerability plays a huge role for online dating predators and they will stop at nothing in their relentless pursuit for self gain. Nigeria and Senegal are two countries that have a massive underground network and thriving illegal economy based on deceiving lonely hearts. These countries are a breeding ground for online con artists as their governments do not police these criminal activities as online fraud is part of their economies. A bit like the opium farmers in Afghanistan, or the clothing markets in South East Asia who sell fake designer goods, the governments won’t stop it because such illegal activities prop up their economies and provide income for the people that governments can’t.

Common sense will see you beat the criminals and allow you to utilize the power of online dating sites to meet real and genuine singles . Begin your online chat anonymously, and give very little away until you know what you’re getting yourself into. Don’t be too eager to rush out and meet a guy until you have been able to verify certain things. You want to know the basics, where he lives, his home phone number, and where he works etc. I’m not suggesting you turn up at his home or work place, but it’s a simple process of indentifying him and eliminating doubt.

Here is a typical example of a scam email, although common sense would indicate it’s not genuine, some inexperienced singles who are new to online dating sites will get caught out.

“Hello my dearest, even so we never knew one another, after attending to your dating profile I know we can be more than friends and share much love and happiness in marriage. My family is from of import wealth and my dying father has necessitated me to deposit ,000,000 into your appointed banking institution so we can start a family. Please react to this email destination with your bank facility numbers so my very sick father can complete the distraction before his death so we can be marry”.

The best thing you can do is to delete the email and don’t engage them at all, you are just one of thousands of people who have been spammed. The sad thing is, people really do fall for these scammers and have no way of catching them as they are international criminals and local authorities have no jurisdiction.

Always take heed of your instincts. And always remember, online dating is fun, convenient and perfect for new relationships, but never allow your safety to be compromised. If your instinct says it’s wrong – then it’s wrong, don’t settle for anything else.

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May 04 2011

Dating Tips – Know What a Woman Wants – And How to Give it to Her!

Category: Dating Tipsadmin @ 5:25 pm
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by Alan Stanton

A lot of people seem to not get the pointers that they need to think about when it comes to the topic of dating. It is because of this which prompted the interest to come up with a compiled list of top dating tips. This is especially a good read for those who are particularly new to the scene, or for those who are looking for a handy advice in order to meet someone new.

Before anything else, it is also important to keep in mind that there really no instant formula to be able to land a suitable mate. These so- called top dating tips are just mere guidelines, and results may be different for all people. However, the things that are included here are mostly the essentials one must remember along the path of dating.

First of all, every individual venturing in the arena of dating should face it with a certain level of preparedness and confidence. It is important to be discern personal reasons, the environment where to look for, know who to look for in the person, and determine one’s personal commitment when it comes to dating.

Grooming oneself is also essential factor in any of the general top dating tips. Going shopping, staying fit and attending some form of beauty treatment will do great wonders in order to attract that desired person. First impression sometimes do indeed last, and no one would likely want to be remembered as the stinky person in the party, and worse, in front of the hottest person they could meet.

When it comes to actual date itself, there are also pointers to remember. Showing up late for a date is not an excuse, call up in advance if it cannot be helped. Bringing a companion will pose some level of discomfort to your date since it implies disinterest. It also implies a desire to find a reason for an easy way out of the date.

Attending to a call in the middle of a conversation is definitely a no. Conversations about an ex or previous lovers will also definitely ruin the mood. Also, imagine having to talk to a person whose eyes keep on darting to someone else the whole time. Yes, it really is truly disrespectful and not to mention, annoying. Getting drunk and eating like a starved savage will definitely turn your date off. Such table manners will then make them concerned about how you would react given a different situation, and worse, how worse the condition of your income is.

On a lighter note, being able to renew the level of personal security and confidence will help replenish the lost energy that dating may bring. So remember, it is important to enjoy the journey of dating and know when to give yourself the personal space that you need. It really is all about the fun of meeting and learning about new people that brings the enthusiasm and interest for every person so reserve the sex for later.


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