Mar 04 2011

Online Dating Advice – How to Avoid the 3 Classic Mistakes That Ensure It Will Never Work Out

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by Thomas Hawk

Online dating can feel like a roller coaster. On the one hand, it provides plenty of opportunity for meeting men quickly, however you can often find yourself dropped in an instant, and without any goodbye or explanation. One day he contacts you regularly, the next he’s disappeared. Does this sound familiar? With its regular highs and lows, it can leave you wondering whether it’s worth the effort. This is where knowledge is power. To succeed at online dating and get your guy, you must avoid the classic mistakes that so many women make. Read on to find out more.

So, you’ve hit it off with a guy online and it’s all going well. He seems keen to chat to you and you look forward to his attentions. Before you know it, you’re flirting every night and you can’t wait for him to ask you out. Eventually it happens. You arrange to meet him and you feel like you’re on cloud 9.

But wait… this opportunity is fraught with hidden danger. You see, usually when we go on a first date, we have had limited contact with the man that we are meeting. But internet dating is different. We may have chatted and emailed extensively. Usually we already feel like we know the guy and he knows us. Even though we have never met before, we may already have developed a level of attachment to him and we may even be starting to play out a relationship in our head. If so, we have already committed 2 of the greatest dating sins.

If you are already playing out a relationship in your head with someone you have never met, then stop now. This is dating; it is not a relationship yet. Becoming attached to a man before you have taken the time to get to know him, is a recipe for disaster and will lead to heartache. Many men will take advantage if you let them, so if you don’t watch out for yourself, don’t expect him to do it for you. However well you think you know him, you don’t know him at all. Making sure that you find out what type of person he is before you enter a relationship will not only protect you but it will show him that you value yourself which will increase your attraction in his eyes.

The third mistake that women make is revealing too much about themselves too soon. Lulled into a false sense of security by that feeling of closeness and already knowing him, she feels like she can tell him anything. She opens herself up, as only a woman can, and spills her guts on everything that has gone wrong in her past life and relationships. He then wonders how to tell her that it is over before it started while she wonders why she doesn’t hear from him again as it was such a wonderful date.

Hopefully you realise that online dating is really only a way of meeting someone and getting that first date. It is from the first meeting that the “real dating” starts in earnest and the rules of dating apply. Don’t allow your sense of familiarity to spoil a promising relationship. If you want to give online dating a chance, make sure that you don’t allow yourself to fall into any of the above traps. Always put yourself and your safety first during any new relationship encounters. You can succeed at online dating when you avoid these classic mistakes.

Don’t leave finding a man to chance. You will probably end up alone or dating losers and jerks. You can succeed at dating when you realise that your words and actions either draw your man closer or push him further away. When you understand how dating works from a man’s point of view, you will start to get it right. Get expert dating advice now to ensure your success in meeting and keeping your dream man. You can also visit my website for further advice on how to handle online dating and general dating advice.


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Feb 18 2011

The One Free Online Dating Advice You Should Never Forget

Category: Online Dating Adviceadmin @ 1:57 pm
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by Thomas Hawk

Ladies, ladies, ladies. I’m afraid you have some harsh words and free online dating advice coming your way. Mind you, it’s free online dating advice, not free relationship advice – for even I tread lightly there; in other words, I am no expert. But I am an expert when it comes to dating as a single mother, and I am about to impose very stringent guidelines.

I am freaking out because of the following bit of news: a 24-year-old Oregon man has been convicted of murder – murder by abuse, sexual abuse and unlawful sexual penetration – of a two-year-old girl. He also physically abused the girl’s three-year-old brother. The children were his girlfriend’s. He was babysitting the poor little tykes while the mother was out of town.

This is sickening stuff, and in my opinion this mother deserves a swift kick in the pants for – literally – criminal negligence. She neglected to find out that her boyfriend was a criminal before she trusted him with her children! Mind you, I am trying not to judge – we’ve all been there as single mothers. Nobody is perfect and we’ve all made mistakes. But thankfully not the kind that cost us our children’s lives, right?

This is yet another hard lesson for all of us: don’t ever let anyone near your children, unless you have thoroughly investigated him (her) and know he (she) isn’t capable of harming a defenseless child. Just like in many other child sex offender cases, there must have been preceding incidents in this man’s criminal records, which perhaps didn’t end in murder but were precursors to this tragedy and would have alerted the mother. This woman didn’t do her homework.

So, my free online dating advice to you, single mothers, is don’t even attempt to go on a date without making sure this man will not mistreat your children. Let’s face it, once we get close to a new man, our rosy glasses are on, and he is the prince charming who can do no wrong. So while you still have your common sense about you, get that man checked out, girlfriends. One can always find another date – it’s not worth losing a child.

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Jan 22 2011

Date Tips for Men – Mistakes You Never Want to Make on the First Date

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Even though it might seem a little tricky at first, getting the first date with a woman really is not the hard part. It’s getting the second and the third date with her that really requires a little know how. Make a lot of mistakes on the first date, and you are pretty much guaranteed that you are not going to get that second or third date. Problem is, most guys end up making these mistakes without even knowing it.

Here are a few first date tips on what mistakes you should never make:

1. Never make a date with her without putting any thought into it.

If you really want to make a good impression on a woman, then you need to put some thought into the experience for her. I’m not talking about doing some serious planning, but what most guys do is the generic dinner and a movie kind of thing. Well, chances are, every guy that has ever taken her on a date has done that. Why not think out of the box a little and take her somewhere different. One thing is sure if you do, you will stand out.

2. Never make the first date seem like an interview.

It’s perfectly fine for you to ask her some questions about herself and get to know her, but there is something wrong with making the first date seem like an interview where she is on the spot. Asking her questions that would come off like you are kind of playing the role of an interviewer will not generate many sparks with her, and it’s one of the things that ends up making first dates seem so awkward.

3. Never end the first date without some kind of physical contact, a kiss, or something.

The more times that you see a woman in the context of a date and nothing physical happens, as in a kiss, the more she is going to think of you as being a really nice… friend. Yes, it will get you stuck in the friend zone where you end up going on friendly dates, with no chance of you getting anywhere with her.

 

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Dec 26 2010

Dating Tips for Men – 5 Mistakes That You Never Want to Make on a First Date With a Woman

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First dates. They can be the start of something beautiful or they can become a train wreck in the blink of an eye or in the silence of one of those awkwardly long pauses. Mess up on the first date and the odds of you getting a second date are pretty much slim to none. Don’t mean to put the pressure on you, but you have to admit, if you don’t get the first date right, there probably won’t be another chance to save face.

So, you probably are wondering what some of the worst mistakes that you can make on a first date are. Well, the list could be really long to tell you the truth, but I have chosen 5 mistakes that you really do not want to make. They might be funny when they happen to someone else, but you probably do not want to have it happen to you.

Here are 5 mistakes that you never want to make on a first date with a woman:

1. Trying too hard to brag about yourself or to make yourself look cool.

You might as well have the word, INSECURE, stamped on your forehead if you go this route. While you want to leave a woman impressed with you, you want it to happen ‘naturally.’ That means no overt bragging, no doing things to purposely try to make yourself look like a cool guy. All you will end up doing is make yourself appear insecure in a woman’s eyes, and make her want to take a pass on a second date with you.

2. Trashing an ex girlfriend or a previous date.

This is another classic sign of an insecure man and a guy that has ‘issues’ that most women will not want to deal with. The funny thing about trashing someone, especially an ex girlfriend or a previous date is, it usually comes back to make YOU look bad. Plus, what’s a woman to think if you are trashing a past girlfriend? That you might do the same to her down the line? Just stay away from trying to speak negatively about an ex girlfriend and you will be fine.

3. Treat a waitress or waiter badly if you are at a restaurant.

I was on a double date one time with a work friend of mine, and he is one of those picky guys that probably makes the wait staff want to spit in his food. I knew this going into the double date, and I should have known better. Lo and behold, he was a total jerk to the waiter, and I was sitting across from his date, on a diagonal. So, out of the corner of my eye, every time that he was a jerk to the waiter, I could see a look of disgust come across this girl’s face. Well, needless to say, he did not get a second date with her.

4. Telling boring stories that make her wish she was watching paint dry on a wall.

You have to put your game face on when it comes to a first date and make sure that you are not doing anything that is going to leave a woman bored with you. And telling her a really boring and uneventful story will do just that. She does not want to hear a story that lacks a real plot or anything to keep her interest. If you are not a great story teller, don’t even bother. Just stick to making regular conversation.

5. Trying to get into sex talk with her way too soon.

A lot of guys wait way too long before the inject sex into a conversation, but there are still a lot that inject it way too early. If you are trying to get her to talk sex within the first few minutes of the date, more than likely you are going to give her the impression that you are just out to get laid, and at the end of the night, it’s not going to happen for you. Wait a little longer and wait till the conversation naturally leads there.

Of course, these are all examples of what you should NOT be doing. If you want to get a better idea of what you SHOULD be doing, and get advanced dating tips for men,

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